{"id":100,"date":"2026-08-28T20:23:57","date_gmt":"2026-08-28T20:23:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/index.php\/first-home-exchange\/"},"modified":"2026-08-28T20:23:57","modified_gmt":"2026-08-28T20:23:57","slug":"first-home-exchange","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/","title":{"rendered":"First Home Exchange: The 7 Mistakes Everybody Makes"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Preparing your <strong>first home exchange<\/strong> always produces the same doubts and, almost always, the same seven mistakes. None of them is serious and all of them are avoidable if you know about them in advance. This article walks through each one with the concrete fix.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_87 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">In this article<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/span><\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_1_photographs_taken_at_night\" >Mistake 1: photographs taken at night<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_2_starting_too_late\" >Mistake 2: starting too late<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_3_copy_and_pasted_messages\" >Mistake 3: copy and pasted messages<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_4_being_rigid_about_dates\" >Mistake 4: being rigid about dates<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_5_leaving_no_space_in_the_house\" >Mistake 5: leaving no space in the house<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_6_assuming_the_rules_are_obvious\" >Mistake 6: assuming the rules are obvious<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Mistake_7_disappearing_during_the_stay\" >Mistake 7: disappearing during the stay<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#The_mistake_that_is_not_a_mistake\" >The mistake that is not a mistake<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Frequently_asked_questions\" >Frequently asked questions<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/first-home-exchange\/#Start_with_the_easy_part\" >Start with the easy part<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-1-photographs-taken-at-night\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_1_photographs_taken_at_night\"><\/span>Mistake 1: photographs taken at night<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The most common error and the most expensive. A listing with dark photographs gets discarded in two seconds, before anyone reads a single line of the description.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> reshoot at mid morning, blinds up and lights off. Tidy first: clear worktops, drying rack away, beds made. Twenty minutes of work that transforms the results.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-2-starting-too-late\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_2_starting_too_late\"><\/span>Mistake 2: starting too late<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Searching in June for a trip in August is arriving late. The good summer exchanges are agreed between January and April.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> publish the listing in January even if you do not yet know where you want to go, and mark generous date ranges. Being visible early is half the work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-3-copy-and-pasted-messages\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_3_copy_and_pasted_messages\"><\/span>Mistake 3: copy and pasted messages<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A generic message is detectable on the first line and is almost never answered. The other side is not managing bookings: they are deciding whether to trust you with their home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> three personalised messages outperform twenty copied ones. The structure that works is in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/index.php\/home-exchange-request\/\">home exchange request guide<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-4-being-rigid-about-dates\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_4_being_rigid_about_dates\"><\/span>Mistake 4: being rigid about dates<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The most frequent obstacle in a first home exchange is not interest but the calendar. Insisting on fixed dates cuts your options to a fraction.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> offer three or four days of margin and mention explicitly that you accept deferred or points based exchanges. Nothing unlocks more agreements.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-5-leaving-no-space-in-the-house\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_5_leaving_no_space_in_the_house\"><\/span>Mistake 5: leaving no space in the house<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Arriving somewhere where every wardrobe is full and the fridge has no free shelf is uncomfortable, and it is one of the things that turns up most often in lukewarm reviews.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> one empty wardrobe and drawer per bedroom, and two clear shelves in the fridge. We cover it in the guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/index.php\/preparing-your-home-for-guests\/\">preparing your home for guests<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-6-assuming-the-rules-are-obvious\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_6_assuming_the_rules_are_obvious\"><\/span>Mistake 6: assuming the rules are obvious<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Almost no conflict comes from bad faith. It comes from each family assuming something different about smoking, pets or noise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> four or five sentences written warmly, in the agreement and printed in the house. Examples are in the guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/index.php\/house-rules-for-a-home-swap\/\">house rules<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"mistake-7-disappearing-during-the-stay\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mistake_7_disappearing_during_the_stay\"><\/span>Mistake 7: disappearing during the stay<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many first time hosts think the polite thing is not to intrude. In practice, silence creates insecurity: guests do not know who to ask when the boiler makes an odd noise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>The fix:<\/strong> a short message on arrival day and another halfway through. It resolves ninety per cent of questions and lifts the final review.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"the-mistake-that-is-not-a-mistake\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_mistake_that_is_not_a_mistake\"><\/span>The mistake that is not a mistake<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many beginners believe their home is not good enough. They are almost always wrong: studios, two bedroom flats and village houses all get exchanged, and what decides it is location and honesty rather than square metres or decor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Location and accessibility consistently outweigh property characteristics in how travellers choose accommodation, a pattern visible in the tourism data published by the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ons.gov.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Office for National Statistics<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"frequently-asked-questions\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently_asked_questions\"><\/span>Frequently asked questions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How long does a first home exchange take to arrange?<\/strong> Two to four months if you start in the right season.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>What if I get no replies?<\/strong> Check photographs, dates and personalisation. The problem is almost always one of those three.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Is it better to start with a short exchange?<\/strong> Yes. Two or three nights close to home is the best possible trial run.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>How long does preparing the house take?<\/strong> A weekend the first time, an afternoon thereafter.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"start-with-the-easy-part\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Start_with_the_easy_part\"><\/span>Start with the easy part<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Take ten photographs in morning light this week and publish the listing. Everything else is learned along the way. The full process is in the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/index.php\/home-exchange\/\">complete home exchange guide<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The seven typical mistakes of a first swap, with the practical fix for each.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":99,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-100","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guides","category-tips"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=100"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/100\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/99"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=100"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=100"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.homeforswap.com\/blog_eng\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=100"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}